Monday, February 2, 2009

Early Morning Blues


It's February and Anas is still crying every morning, refusing to go to school. It's so stressful to have to force him out of the bed, into the shower & dressing him every single morning, whilst having to bear with his wails and cries. When it's time to go, he will put on this very sad face, he will hug me tight & plead with me one last time to let him stay at home. A real drama every morning in Danau Kaseh. 

I feel so tired having to deal with this.. Parenting is such a challenge... sigh...

26 comments:

bubbles said...

still?

Asmadiana Alias said...

ya, still?

hhhmmmmmm....mungkin he didnt like school kot..cikgu garang mungkin?

anas oh anas....

sif said...

ye ker??ble tgk muke dan gaye Anas mcm hero yg tough..
sygnyee,nk g skola nangis..
it's ok la..lame2 die ok latu..
adorable pe anas tuh..
even kdg2 saje tunjuk dramatic..penuh sandiwara anas rupenye..cute!hahaha~

Adillah A Nordin said...

Win, How ah? Your Mukhriz is such an angel...

Adillah A Nordin said...

Nana, bukan sebab cikgu garang. Tapi memang sebab 2M: Manja & Malas!!

Adillah A Nordin said...

Hiya Suzi!
Anas memang sangat pandai berDRAMA :)
Tapi memang tak hero langsung..

shaddapustink said...

mama deals with the same thing with sarah once in a blue moon.

caramel said...

Dilla....my Afrina pun macam tu if not worse.....sejak standard 1 sampai lah sekarang dah masuk standard 2 macam tu lah juga.....we had to practically drag her to the car and she would nangis macam nak kena hantar ke slaughter house untuk disembelih...atau she would at u and give u that sad look and accuse u of not loving her anymore....school is like a hell home for her that at times i rasa macam nak give in and let her stay home but i know better than to do that....my sister would probably kill me if i take that route.....

Anas is such and angel lah Dilla....he is just going thru the adjustment period and he will be just fine nanti.......baru sebulan je kan sekolah...give him the chance k....

Milkberry said...

Kak Ila! I'm holding a giveaway contest on my blog! Maybe Adlina would want to try it :D

buttercup said...

i guess all moms hv to go thru it.

mimi is Anas in the making. Hari2 kena umpan dia & stop by petronas to beli itu ini b4 going to premier. Thk God she's only 4. Hope she'll be fine by the time she's in Year 1.

Yaya, on the other hand, LOVES school, homework, tuition, swimming lessons, etc..she's sooo good. i'm getting a dose of wat you went thru with yr 3 elder kids. Bestnya...

& Ael is still my Ael. He complains less. We negotiate on the thgs we want from each other.

Mothers...the thgs we go thru to bring up the kids...

bubbles said...

I thk itu symptom anak bongsu la blossom..

sebagai pakar kaunseling & motivasi pagi.. utk mengatasi masalah anda ini pn adillah, saya cadangkan anda memberikan anas seorang adik.

renung renungkan, dan selamat beramaaaal... (intonasi mcm pakar motivasi hot fm tu..) ;-p

Adillah A Nordin said...

Danial, Anas memang pandai emotional blackmail la..

Adillah A Nordin said...

Alamak Raha, kalau your Afrina sampai std 2 pun still macam tu...nampaknya Anas pun I kena prepare myself for the worse la..

Adillah A Nordin said...

I've already told Alina about ur giveaway Shikin. She will be looking at it soon :-)

Adillah A Nordin said...

OMG Eda.. Mimi is DEFINITELY Anas in the making. That was what I had to do with Anas when he was in pre-school. Bribe with snacks at Petronas! heehee...

Yes, Yaya is an angel! When I saw her yesterday, she said she LOVES school, LOVES tuition and LOVES the swimming classes!! She's really like Adlina!!

Adillah A Nordin said...

Hello Dr Fadhilah Bubbles, Semakin membawa bahana kalau ada sorang lagi baby.. don't play-play!! Terus high blood pressure nanti :-)

caramel said...

Dilla....Afrina had reason why she tak suka gi sekolah....my little one speaks English as compared to her friends yang cakap BM...and that she has a slight reading problem and yang membuat the teachers macam tak layan sangat so dia rasa out of place.....tu yang membuat dia buat perangai...she is starting her reading tuition and i hope that it would help.

Bubbles betul lah Dilla....boleh lah....i dah lama tak tengok babies....al my babies dah grown up sudah.......

ms hart said...

Dil oh Dil!!!! Sabar lah ya.. My std 1 hero tu, memanglah has no problem in the morning...but then problem dia lain pulak - when his angin comes...OMG...drama sebabak jadi drama bersiri!!! Ampun!!

kaseh said...

Salam ibu2 & ibu2 to be...

Kak Illa,
Janganlah risau is just a normal thing...kat semua rumah kita ade mcm2 drama ngan our kids. Me..here with no bibik around to help lagi stress...tapi saborlah. Nabil, bab2 nak bangun awal and get himself ready to scholl no hal at all sekali kejut dah ok...BUT Naufal...huahhh...huahhhh....bercinta nak bangun, dah bangun pulak berbagai kerenah dia nak kena attend by the time i got school b4 this is already 9.30 or 10.00 ohhhh...tapi syukur dah pindah to new scholl, at least i dukung dia masuk car & the school teachers mandikan semua....SO THE BEST THINGS TO DO is SABORR... and enjoy this momentkan!! Coz nanti bila pelakon2 cilik kita ni semua dah besor we will surely miss this moment of our parenting life. Sekian dari motivasi pagi bersama kaseh dan bibik junior bukit katil...kwang...kwang...

Adillah A Nordin said...

Tati, your hero is an angel la compared to Anas! Tadi pun Anas nangis teresak-esak sampai dalam kereta... Haaii... memanglah menguji kesabaran...

Adillah A Nordin said...

Linda, memang banyak2 bersabor & beristighfar every time Anas tantrum.. Good luck to u too! Baguslah dah tukar sekolah yang lebih accommodating..

shaz said...

Dila,
Sabar aje lah...you wont get that anymore once they are bigger. It wont last forever.
Now my kids are all older, I miss all those kecoh kecoh and stressfullnes of caring for little kiddies. They are quite independent now, nak pergi jalan pun dah tak nak ikut.

Adillah A Nordin said...

Hello Kak Shaz,
Yes, you are right.. my eldest boy pun dah tak nak ikut I jalan kadang2.. they grow up too fast la!

Unknown said...

alang-ateh

hehe ...
alaaahhh ....
sarah pon sebijik je cam mimi and anas ...
dlu b4 she was in kindergarten...
dia selalu je nak menyibuk ikot mama hantar izzat and amir to school...
then slalu drag mama pergi petronas go buy this buy that...

and then everytime mama comes home from work...
she will always ask.
"did u buy anything for me"
sengal.

shaddapustink said...

oh2 ..
didnt notice i was using mama's account

Adillah A Nordin said...

Hiya Danial,
Have to ask your mom for some tips on how to tame Anas la..