Monday, May 11, 2009

Mak


My beautiful Mak

When I was a little girl, I always thought that Apak was the head of the family who made all the decisions for all of us. I was always in awe of Apak & thought that Mak was just playing a supporting role to Apak. But now that I've grown up, I realized that Mak had played a much bigger role in our family and in my life. Looking back, Mak was the most influential person in my growing up life and I am who I am now, mostly because of Mak. 

Mak is the most sincere and most generous person I know. Mak was the one who taught all of us values in life as we grew up; the rights and wrongs. Mak was the person who kept our family so close together, always reminding us the importance of staying close. It was Mak who reminded us that it was prayer time, teaching us how to do it right. Mak was the one who encouraged us to do our best in school; Mak attended all my school concerts, the one who applauded the loudest when I received any prize in school. When I was in boarding school, it was Mak who fussed over everything, making sure I had enough food, clothes and everything else. Coming home for holidays, its was Mak who made sure that my favourite dishes were served at every meal.

Mak loves to make people happy. She devotes her life to making others happy, her family, her friends. She is so giving. She is surrounded by people who love her and who hold on to her friendship passionately. She has nothing bad or negative to say about anyone. Mak always looks at the best in people. She always reminds us "Biar orang buat kita sedih, jangan kita buat orang sedih" (Let others hurt us, but we must never hurt others). Such a simple reminder, but I really try hard to hold on to it. 

Having 4 kids of my own, I can now appreciate  how difficult it must have been for Mak to bring up all 8 of us. And she did it so gracefully, and successfully. Through her strength and dedication, we are who we are today. I just pray that I can be half the mother that she is to me to my kids. 
Mak was awarded the "Best Mother Award" or anugerah Ibu Mithali for the state of Melaka last Sunday on Mother's Day - and how she deserves it! We are so proud of her! 

Mak - you are my Hero & I love you soooo very much.
Happy Mother's Day!

Footnote - Mother's Day in Danau Kaseh started with a delicious breakfast cooked by our very own chef, Mizter Adlan. 
Yummy breakfast!

My bedroom walls were decorated with love notes & cards by Hakim, Adlina & Anas. 

I love the cards & notes - pasted all over my walls <3

Thank you my loves. Mama had a terrific Mother's Day (^_^)

Mama is Queen of the Table :)

10 comments:

Mrs.A said...

Congratulations to your mom Kak Dilla. I hope when my children are bigger they see the sacrifices I made for them. (and Happy Belated Mother's Day to you!)

Adillah A Nordin said...

Thanks Amy. Mak memang sangat2 terharu during the event.. I'm sure your kids know how GREAT their mom is to them & when they grow up, they will understand your sacrifices.. Happy Mother's Day!

caramel said...

Dilla;

Congratulations to your mom....heard about it from Ijan and sis......mommies played the most important part of our life dari kecil hinggalah ke dewasa.....this particular posting of urs brings tears to my eyes.....sob sob sob...........

Happy mothers day to u too........

Adillah A Nordin said...

Raha, Coming from anak bongsu yang sangat manja dengan maknya... haha :D I always takut when I think berapa lama lagi masa I have with my mom...

shaz said...

Congratulation to your mom Dilla. Though I dont know her and have never met her but I know three of her girls and she definitely has done a great job in raising you all.

kaseh said...

What a beautiful words composed by u in expressing your feelinf towards your mum. Everything u said for was so true...i was shared with so many good story about how lucky for us who beeb choosen by Allah to be mum by Dato' Fadzilah Kamsah when i was with him at the World Halal Forum that day.

I am so proud dengan your mum...happy sangat tengok moment you ambik gambar sekeluarga...DAN YANG buat i lagi tersentuh ialah u 3 looking beautiful in sentuhan kaseh at a very important moment in your life...

Adillah A Nordin said...

Thanks Kak Shaz,
All mothers are special & deserve the award kan :)

Adillah A Nordin said...

Hi Linda,
Memang it was a very special day for Mak & yes, the PPGs semua pakai baju dari botique Kaseh!! My Kak Long said that she MUST go & see you one day & get some beadwork done! Nanti I introduce her to u ok :)

buttercup said...

I love MAK! Wateva u wrote is all true. At some points in our lives we have taken her for granted. But unintentionally. I agree, we are wat we are today is because of her.
She's an inspiration to me.

Adillah A Nordin said...

Hiya Buttercup,
Just hope that one day our kids would write about us this way... :)